first impression

listening to jay's song now....so nice and enjoyable, liking him so much ....
i did not like him the first time when he became famous, just did not like his style, his song, his everything....it's so strange that human tend to change their taste and preference when they grow like what i am experiencing now..
the same goes for 'sek si man' and 'lam fong'...dun like their acting at the frst place, but they are improving leaps and bounds, resist me from disliking them. so we always need to give rooms for others to improve, dun ever set your mindset on the first impression. Your first imprssion might be wrong, most of time is wrong. this makes the first impression very dangerous that you can't change the mind on what you have set in your mind for a person. it is hard for you to change a person's perception after you set that particular person as 'someone'.

this probably may lead us to make a wrong decision or treat somebody badly just because you feel 'tat person' deserve on these kind of treatment.

dun ever judge somebody too early!!!!